As a mom and someone who loves there mom dearly, this song makes me cry every time I hear it – every time.
Mom, I love you so much.
Every year before our Memorial Day Weekend camping trip to Banks Lake in eastern Washington we make a “mix tape”. Wow, I’m old. What do you call it these days anyway? A compilation CD? Too formal. A Mix CD? Sounds dumb. Oh well, anyway…
We create this cd as a sort of time capsule, documenting the popular music of the year and it becomes my summer soundtrack, mostly because I am one of those people who never changes the cds in the car. Karli also does a lot of music discovery and comes up with stuff that I would never find but usually grow to love. I also try to include songs from several other categories. Something that was just released. Someone making a comeback. Songs that were influential this last year. And there always seems to be one old song that we just discovered or rediscovered.
Because it also has to serve as the music that lives in my car for the next year, it needs to upbeat, happy and sound good loud. No slow songs unless they are incredible or fit perfectly into one of the essential categories. I also take great care in the ordering of the cd. Making the perfect mix tape is an art form that I have been enjoying and partaking in since high school. The order of and grouping of songs as well as the transitions between songs are very important.
This was the first year that we had to take the kid’s likes and dislikes into account. We don’t listen to any children’s music really, sometimes some Barenaked ladies or Jack Johnson who both have children’s albums. But really our kids just like to listen to regular music. We mostly make them listen to what we like, but the Rhapsody Tivo interface was wonky for a few months and all we could easily get through the TV and stereo system in the house was the Rhapsody Top Tracks, which includes mostly top forty stuff. Because of this the kids have developed a definite opinion about what they like and so we gave them a nod on this cd.
Nickelback for Ian, he likes the hard stuff and for some reason Nickelback is his favorite, and Flo Rida and Lady Gaga for Ada, she likes the dance tracks.
I want to keep a record of these so i am posting this here and hey, maybe you will like it too. Every song has a reason and a place and I am really pleased with this year’s creation.
1. Make It Mine – Jason Mraz
2. Poker Face – Lady GaGa
3. Break Me Out 2.0 – The Rescues
4. All Around Me – Flyleaf
5. I Don’t Feel Like Dancin’ – Scissor Sisters
6. The Fear – Lily Allen
7. Peacemaker – Green Day
8. Burn It To The Ground – Nickelback
9. Right Round – Flo Rida
10. I Kissed A Girl – Katy Perry
11. You Found Me – The Fray
12. Walking On A Dream – Empire Of The Sun
13. Homecoming – Hey Monday
14. Falling Away – Jupiter Rising
15. Lisztomania – Phoenix
16. Womanizer – Britney Spears
17. Decode – Paramore
18. Boom Boom Pow – Black Eyed Peas
19. Sink Into Me – Taking Back Sunday
20. Help I’m Alive – Metric
21. Sunshine Lady (Alternate Mix) – Two Spot Gobi
If you know me, then you know this is not a normal state for me, even on a good day.
I even found myself busting a move and doing the humpty hump
in the car on the way to the gym tonight (yes, both on the radio in one 15 minute car ride, can you believe it?) . All I needed was Funky Cold Medina
and it would have been a party. What the?
I just feel lighter. I feel like my life is waiting and I don’t want to miss another moment.
I have been to hell and back over this last six months and I finally feel like I have turned some sort of corner.
I approach this new mood with cautious optimism and an open heart.
As if it were a sign or something, I heard the following four songs all in a row. Three on random shuffle as I climbed the last brutal hill of a 45 minute treadmill session and one happened to be on when I got in the car and hit CD on the stereo.
Dare You To Move – Switchfoot*
Unwell – Matchbox 20
Away From The Sun – 3 Doors Down
Say- John Mayer
As I drove up the hill a tear of fullness crept from my eye, brought there by John Mayer’s Say.
”Have no fear for giving in. Have no fear for giving over. You better know that in the end it’s better to say too much that to never say what you need to say. Even if your hands are shaking and your faith is broken. Even as the eyes are closing. Do it with a heart wide open. Say what you need to say. Say what you need to say.”
Yes, I know it’s cheesy and a little over the top. But really, can you ignore this kind of day?
*Yeah, yeah, I know.
Tonight Puff went off on Aubrey for her look and I have to say that I totally agree. I think what Puff is trying to get at is that she just needs to be Aubrey and quit trying to pose so much. She just looks like she is trying way to hard. The big hair and bigger cleavage, the fake lashes and whatever is wrong with her face. Did she have surgery or bad lip injections? I don’t know what happened, but something is just off. She doesn’t look like herself.
I get that she’s growing up and changing and still finding herself. I totally get that and I have all the love for Aubrey, but she needs to find the authenticity within herself. Maybe she needs a little break, some time by herself and some space from all the glitz and glam.
Aubrey – Do some yoga, find your center and respect yourself. You Rock! Own it, not show it. You just don’t need all that crap.
I just upgraded my Rhapsody account to Rhapsody to Go and oh my gosh, I just fell in love all over again. Within twenty minutes, my mp3 player was full of music. Just drag, drop and go. Anything you want. I am telling you, it is the coolest thing since sliced bread.
You see, Rhapsody offers the To-Go upgrade that allows you to transfer pretty much any song they have to your mp3 player. There is no individual track charge. The catch is that this is subscription content and you do not own it and it doesn’t live on your computer for you to do as you wish with it. When you delete it from your mp3 player, it is gone and if you want it again, you will need to transfer it again. The great thing about this is you can add, delete, change etc as much as you want.
Now, I am not one of those people that is all hung up on ownership. If you are, then Rhapsody in general is not the service for you, except they have a larger collection and cheaper prices for downloads than anyone else. I just don’t feel the need to own all the music I like. For those albums that I really like and want as part of my collection for years to come, I go and buy the cd. So for me, Rhapsody is just about perfect.
It is like walking into a record store and just listening to whatever you want. And now being able to take it with me is icing on the cake.
My only gripe, and it isn’t a gripe about rhapsody, is that it wouldn’t work with my iPod. This is one of the reason that it took me so long to upgrade my account. I had an iPod and it didn’t work. Well, it finally had been long enough and I could buy a new mp3 player and so I made sure to find one that is compatible with Rhapsody. I went with the Creative Zen V Plus and I have to say, i don’t miss my iPod at all. It is sleek, very small (suprisingly so) and has all the features I needed. There are many other players that work with Rhapsody available as well depending on your needs.
Now, this is not a problem with Rhapsody. Believe me, they would support the iPod if they could. The iPod does not support subscription content. Apple wants you to only be able to buy music from their store and play it in their format. It’s as simple as that.
